Listen up, Men! We call them simps, in China they call them ‘spare tires.’ These guys are the backups, the ones women use for emotional support, financial upkeep, and attention while they chase the guy they think they truly deserve—the alpha. A spare tire will never get the privileges of the real man. He’ll be there, giving, sacrificing, hoping that one day she’ll pick him, but that day never comes. He’s not the first choice, he’s just a means to an end—a tool she uses until her real target arrives.

This is how simps get heated, used up, and discarded, left feeling broken after giving their all for nothing. Women will drain your resources, time, and emotions, and when the man she really wants comes along, she’ll drop you like yesterday’s news. Don’t be that guy. Understand your value, know your worth, and never let anyone—especially a woman—use you as a stepping stone for someone else.

Alpha men know the game; they play to win. Simps, or spare tires, lose because they’re too busy trying to impress, thinking they’ll be rewarded with love and loyalty. But loyalty is earned, not begged for. So stop being the backup, the second choice, or the safety net. Focus on building yourself, respect yourself, and never settle for being used as a tool for someone else’s gain.

On the side, congratulations to the big guy for this win.

Aklahyel Goni