Another one bite the dust
And life continues

So painful that this life will continue after we must have all left this surface
Why the fuss ?
Why the grandstanding ?
Why the suffering while smiling ?
Who truly cares?

You are the only one who truly cares about yourself and you are also the only one who is the most important in your life

The bane of African marriages is the societal dictates tied to marriages
Change your personal narrative sisters
I love marriage but I advocate that walking away is the only option in some toxic relationship when presented

The Red flags are everywhere and most times we chose to ignore them

Let’s know this
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A woman who is in a marriage and not working or trading or providing a solution and earning she is in abusive marriage
It could be self inflicted or husband choice

You get married and a man tells you not to work or earn a living
You are in an abusive marriage

You are married and and you are told marriage is just between you and your husband or spouse you are in an abusive marriage

You are in a marriage and your man is threatening you and promising to deal with you , you are in an abusive marriage

As a man you allow your woman to feed you while you wait on the lord you are in an abusive marriage

You married somebody’s daughter or son and you are always suspicious of her movements or his movement you are both in an abusive marriage

In life we should always have control over our emotions thought at times it’s not easy but don’t all your emotions to deprive you of that one thing you truly desire

It’s sad some men and women are following the dangerous paths of either setting their spouses ablaze or beating them to death

It’s better to leave and live
Than to be respected as an Ndidi spec while you are at the verge of losing the most treasured thing in life your BREATH

Parents teach your children right
Our children will not be part of this statistic