Stop setting yourself on fire for people who will just sit there and watch you burn. You deserve more than that. You deserve people who will fan your flames, not those who stand by and let you scorch yourself out of desperation for their approval, attention, or affection. Too often, we bend over backward to meet the expectations of others, sacrificing pieces of ourselves in the process; our peace, our well-being, our identity. We convince ourselves that if we give more, if we burn a little brighter, maybe they’ll notice. Maybe they’ll care. But in the end, all we’re left with is ash, and they’re still standing there, untouched, indifferent.

You have to realize your worth. No one should have to sacrifice themselves to make someone else feel comfortable, valued, or important. The people who truly care will see your light without you having to set yourself on fire to make it visible. They’ll cherish your warmth, not demand that you burn out for their benefit.

So, stop. Stop burning yourself down to embers, hoping for someone to recognize your worth when you’re reduced to nothing. Let yourself be seen in your full glory, unshaken by the need for validation. Surround yourself with people who will protect that flame, not let it flicker out while they watch. You are not a sacrifice. You are a force of nature, meant to burn bright, not burn out.