#HelloDoc

Sorry, I’m reaching out to you, I’m currently in a state of where I really need your help.

My problem started about three weeks ago.

After dating for four years, my ex-fiance and I decided to settle down next year. We had our introduction last month and a date for the wedding was picked.

At the church where we were to be joined in the holy matrimony, we were given a list of tests to be carried out.

Unfortunately, my HIV test result came out positive. Not only did It came as a rude shock to me but also a mystery I’m yet to understand

After much back and front, my ex-fiance finally broke it to me yesterday that he can’t continue with the wedding/marriage.

Most of my career plan has been on this.

During our four years, have made significant progress in my education, finished my B.A., went for NYSC came back, and started my M.A. After a little delay, I finally finished this year.

Before this unfortunate incident, my ex-fiance had suggested that I switch careers part so that it would be easy to get a job when I relocated to Lagos. I was supposed to take the HR professional exam this December (Chartered Institute of Personnel Management) unfortunately, I could not register for the exam because my master’s result is not yet out.

I did the test in four different places.

The hospital where we went for test, a diagnostic center, went to Lautech teaching hospital for Elisa test. Did another one at General Hospital were I finally started antiretroviral therapy.

Currently, I’m in a state of dilemma. Having to deal with my health, heartbreak, and the fear of what the future holds for me.

I want to relocate to Lagos, but coming over does not guarantee to have a job, I believe if I get a job it will be easy for me to get over the emotional trauma.

Please, I don’t know if you, any of your network of friends or any of your followers would have a professional job I can fit in.

I have a Masters Degree in English Language.

I have good writing and communication skills, I’m computer literate and I’m a fast learner.

I wish to start a career in Human resources management or any related role. I would appreciate it if I could get the needed help.

Many thanks ma’am.

Please, I will appreciate if I remain anonymous because of the stigma attached people living with HIV.

#FromMyInbox