is 50 / 50 it is good to some extent and also bad to some extent the only thing is that it gives you room for you to know your spouse very well. and with that it can cause a lot of issues that may even lead to cancellation of marriage if any plans has been made.

Hmmm this one deep. But I go try say something… Just my opinion though.
Already in the Europe and America marriage is more of a contract.
If you’re the type that like reading scriptures to people, then you must have read that marriage is more of an agreement btw two individuals male and female to become one.
My personal submission is that two grown up adults can enter into any of such agreement. Provided their intentions are alright and not with prejudice mindset.