If I were a man nothing will make me marry. When there are so many beautiful w○men. Or I marry and send her and her kids abroad and have my peace in Nigeria. Or send them to another state and live in another state. Not because I want to chase other w○men but just to have my peace and independence. The wahala mens carry for head is much, and most times I would need silence and at times whatever else will also help me relax and calm my head a bit without answering to anyone. Honestly..

No be every father dey married. And no be every married man get pikin. So, there is no essence in the question.

What men gain in marriage is purpose. Life is nothing without a purpose. You have to live for something and starting a family, especially having kids creates that purpose for you. The love we have from our kids and what they feel for us is sincere and that alone can give you a reason to live. It creates a purpose for your sojourn on this earth, and guides you to make the best of every decisions knowing there are people who sincerely care and love you.

That is one of many reasons.

Love and care

They don’t get anything that’s why they should go marry their fellow men and leave women alone.

Trust me it’s only on very few lucky occasions that a man enjoys more than children in a marriage. Apart from children nothing more really you need to get into marriage to understand this. once again not in all cases but in most cases it’s just a formality meant to please the society

Companionship, responsibility, better reflection about life etc. Marriage, in particular, when children arrive gives a man a huge responsibility and reasons to reflection better about life.

Some men change from their bad ways when they realize that they have a wife and children who love and look up to them.

This is one of the reasons most times families contribute money to get a wife for the bl*ck sheep/efulefu of the family. They believe that having a wife and children will help him change. Though, sometimes it doesn’t work. The guy will use someone’s daughter to keep practicing his efulefuism😆

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